So angry, but am I being unreasonable because of PMS?

After cooking dinner, I asked for some help from my husband for some help doing the dishwasher. Housework has largely fallen to me because I'm recently unemployed, so I didn't mind asking him to help me clear away the dinner plates etc.

He came in complaining about a flea bite, saying 'The living room NEEDS hoovering tomorrow!' and pouting over his arm. I could feel myself getting annoyed with him for not offering to do it himself or help, but made sure to keep my voice level. I said I'd put some flea spray down in the morning, and asked him to help me with the plates. He said he'd 'do it tomorrow' and sulked off upstairs. I nearly screamed I was so angry, so I did the dishwasher and kitchen chores on my own, accidentally on purpose being loud putting away glasses etc for the next twenty minutes/half an hour. He comes down to find me on the sofa with a beer, as I sure wasn't going to go upstairs and pretend he hadn't upset me by ignoring me. What do I do get? 'Kitchen looks better...' YES IT DOES. Let's play a game and guess why! I think he was expecting a kiss when he went 'Okay well I'm going to bed.' and I, probably too frostily, went 'I'll see you in the morning then.' and literally just sat on the sofa while he left, which I don't normally do. All I wanted was a bit of blinking help and he ended up ignoring me for over an hour. We never normally fight but every month he 'doesn't know what to say when my PMS kicks in' so he says nothing! I feel bad not giving him his goodnight kiss but I am still absolutely furious!!

So... I just wanted to get an idea, am I being unreasonable?!