No AF and bfn

Alaina • Ttc my third and my husbands second. Wishing the best if luck to everyone out there!
I am on cycle day 32, my cycles are never this long and AF was due two days ago. I have gotten 2 bfn this week. I'm so frustrated, hubby wants to wait ttc until fall now. Last month AF was only 2 days, I wish I knew what the heck is going on