Husband doesn't like my fitness goals

Dani
So I've been lifting consistently for about a year and a half. I want to be thick and curvy. I think muscular women like Beyoncé, the Williams sisters, and Kortney Olson are goddesses. I've made good progress, adding an inch to my booty and to my thighs! I feel damn good about myself. 
However, my husband disses on my workouts telling me I need to quit bulking and start cutting routines. I can usually brush it off, but this morning I showed him some new shorts I bought, and said about how Sam Hunt sings about me (the way she fits in them blue jeans, she don't need no belt). He told me I have too much thigh going on, so I asked him if he meant that my shorts were too short. He said no, my thighs are too big. It stung. Hard. We haven't been intimate in 7 months, so I'm getting really down on myself. I felt so sexy yesterday in the fitting room, and now I feel like an undesirable heifer. 
Not sure how to deal with this...