Ladies I need help no judging please ..

I have a beautiful one month old baby girl, when she was born I was so happy I felt the love and bond with her immediately .... A week after being home I got so depressed I fought with my husband everyday about everything  .... I don't feel the connection with my baby anymore i'm not happy with her,I  am so overwhelmed with everything i'm a stay at home mom so I have to do everything cook clean do laundry make sure everything is ironed and still stay up at night with the baby .... How do you I help the bond with my baby ,I mean how do I love my baby .... and how do I get my husband to help out more with the house ....