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Question

Today the weather was just warm enough that I felt like I could wear something that wasn't jeans and a sweatshirt. I wore a cami with one of my favorite plaid shirts tied over it with a pair of leggings. All day I was adjusting my cami because I wasn't completely comfortable with how exposed I felt. I kinda made a mental note to myself to not wear that exact top at school. As soon as I got home my brother and I were going back and forth about how basic I thought he was. My mom told me I couldn't talk about "basicness" dressed like how I was. I immediately felt like I was on the hot seat. My brother jumped in, talking about how my cleaveage was the only thing anyone would notice about me, and my mom said she'd warned me not to wear the cami and tied plaid. I got angry and stormed away to my room. Now I can't sleep because I feel like my whole family is attacking me for how I dress, something I'd felt self conscious about all day and wanted to fix. Am I being over dramatic?

Answer

I would be upset if my family talked to me that way. Hands down that was pretty shitty for them too say. Mothers especially should be supportive to their daughters, instead of being rude she should have suggested a change... and your bro sounds like a pecker. You should be able to wear whatever you feel good in, since in this case you found it too revealing you found you're own boundary. Low cut shirts can be revealing and I can see why you're mom would not want you to wear it but she really should have gone about that situation better. Maybe when you calm down talk to her about that? Also, women who show cleavage deserve just as much respect as women who don't...

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