Miscarriage

My husband and I got married in November, let's just say we had a heck of a wedding night and about a month later found out I was pregnant. I went to see my GP and we were told we needed a referral with the insurance I had (later to find out this was not true at all). About two weeks after I had started bleeding a lot and went to the ER. At the ER I let them know I believed I was having a miscarriage and I waited and waited and waited. Finally I had an ultra sound and was told I was 6 weeks along and I was put on bed rest for the next two days. I had a follow up appointment after the two days and found out we had lost the baby. This wasn't planned but my husband and I were devastated. It still tears me up inside that I'd be pregnant right now. I know this happens to many women and I'm not the only one but my heart still hurts. We recently decided and talked about trying again. I was so excited but I feel like he's still a bit cautious when it comes to this. I ask him but he says he's serious and wants to do it but at the same time I don't feel like he's trying? Is this normal? Should I not be thinking about this too much?