Can a lesbian relationship be abusive?

So I've been with my SO for almost 2 years & occasionally we will get in arguments that would end up being physical. Recently on our little "vacation" we got into an argument she grabbed my suitcase, dumped everything out and ended up dragging me and slapping me. Of course I've hit her before because momma didn't raise no punk but it's just something about that fight that makes me view our relationship differently. She wouldn't even let me leave our hotel room, I tried multiple times but she would just drag me. This is obviously an unhealthy relationship but I keep hearing because we are both girls it's no way she abused me that day even though I had bruises and scratches. 

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