I feel like a bitch but…

My husband has decided he's going to lose weight which is great. I'm really happy for him taking a step in a healthier direction. What miffs me is when he only allows himself 1,600 calories a day then goes to lunch with his coworkers so then we can never go out to dinner because it would be to many calories AND he'll make him a healthy dinner and I'll have to just randomly find something for just me. I work later than he does getting off work around 8 at night so by the time I get home he's already made food so we can't make dinner together. I miss eating a meal with my husband... and I'm trying to lose weight too from having a baby. I'm going about it in a smart way and not just cutting out over half my calories a day so I don't lose weight at an unhealthy pass but when I tell my family that we started our diet he literally looked me up and down then responded "...well, I have..." then looked at me disgusted. I'm not fat! I'm 5'8 and 150 pounds I just want to be healthier. I'm so tired of him 😭