He didn't get the memo and now he says I'm a cheater.

Roughly 2 months ago I decided that enough was enough with me and my boyfriend. We just weren't compatible anymore. I was tired of his drinking tired of his smoking (I don't drink or smoke). I was tired of him getting arrested for pot and beating people up in bars on a Friday night.

I'm no angel and far from perfect. But he isn't motivated to do anything with his life. He lives with his parents (he's 28) and doesn't have a job. He did odd jobs in the summer time but since our entire relationship of a year and a half I swear he's worked 2 weeks inconsistently.

I am 22 I have been working and going to school for 3 years. I have no tuition debt. I just bought my first car (It's used but it's paid for). He always complains that I work too much and don't spend enough time with him. Even though I need to work to pay my rent and live you know. And travel because I do enjoy a little vacation here and there.

So in the middle of March i told him i can't do this anymore. I also said I don't see myself marrying you. I don't see us moving forward together.

He was all sad saying he loved me and I said I'm sorry but I won't be seeing you anymore.

Apparently that wasn't clear enough. Because he still thinks we're a couple all this time later. He'll tag me in stuff on social media and be like love you baby you're my world. Gonna marry you someday. Like his family still fully believes we are dating. And I called him out on it and said no we are not were done.

Well fast forward to 4 days ago. Since i am single I can do what I want. Well I have a really good friend And he's been in my life for almost 6 years as a friend. Well 4 days ago we went out for ice cream went back to his place (I've been to his house a million times) we were playing Xbox then ended up having sex. And it was amazing because I trust him. And I know him genuinely.

Well my ex who still thinks we are dating called me out for a post I made of my friend and I having ice cream with the caption "The only thing sweeter than this is him🍦😍"

So apparently I'm a cheater and he's so hurt by my actions. Thoughts.