He has muscles and I'm fat. Should that be a problem for our relationship? He is interested in me but I can't stop thinking of the clichés.

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Girl, if he's interested in you already, there's no need to change. It will not cause any problems in the relationship. Be confident, and he'll love you!

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The only thing that'll cause a problem is worrying & stressing about it. He's with you for a reason, he finds you attractive (both personality & looks.) unless he's ever directly said anything negative about your appearance then don't stress about it. :) I've noticed that us girls stress way more about things that don't even bother them.

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No. My boyfriend is fit af and is a total gym rat. He'll go to the gym and I'll order a pizza and watch reality television. It will only be an issue if he tries to make you feel bad or self conscious which it doesn't sound like he does. It's okay to be comfortable with yourself. Don't worry about the "what if" issues

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I say no problem! The only what if is if he prefers an active lifestyle and you don't (not saying you don't!), then you will both have to meet in the middle for spending time together. My SIL has had troubles with this, she's incredibly smart and chooses to spend her time attending academic events or cooking and they end up not spending much time together because their interests don't overlap very much. Definitely not saying that this is the case for you but I've seen her get pretty hurt when things haven't worked out because she didn't want to spend her weekends going on hikes.

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Probably not a problem. My boyfriend is very fit (goes to the gym almost every day and eat a healthy) and I am not (barely ever go to the gym and eat whatever I'm craving) and even though I do wanna stop my bad habits, he has reassured me he likes me and wouldn't leave me, especially not for that! So if he likes you, he likes you 😘

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No not a problem at all. Sometimes partners can even influence each other to be healthier by encouraging healthy habits (if that's something you want).

He has muscles and I'm fat. Should that be a problem for our relationship? He is interested in me but I can't stop thinking of the clichés.

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