5'8" and in somewhere between the 200lbs.

How tall are you and how much do you weigh? Are you insecure with your body or proud? Does your SO love you for inner or outter?
Well, I'm 17. Last time weighed was 219 don't know about now.. And I am 5'8". My boyfriend says I'm becoming obese. My mother says it's because the after pregnancy weight and I'll lose it soon... But my boyfriend wants me to lose weight. I've never had an insecurity problems nor did I ever hate my body before he told me all this! Ahhh. 😞😖😖😖😖