Should a SAHM be responsible for ALL housework?

Personally, I say no. When you have a home with someone you both work to keep it cleaned up and nice. I have been a SAHM for almost 2 years (I'm dying to go back to work though) and I'm thankful my husband doesn't make me feel horrible if the house isn't cleaned and dinner isn't ready by the time he gets off work. We like to cook together but there are times I do try and have dinner at least started before he gets off work. He helps me clean if I couldn't get to it. He is super helpful around the house! He says as long as he has clothes clean then he doesn't care 😂.  I definitely do try my best to get everything done but some days that's just not possible.