Confused about my own sexual orientation.. •Mildly vulgar nature

I'm posting this anon because not everyone is okay with same-sex relationships, or transfolk, and both are heavily tied to this story. Also, just so we're on the same page, my partner is FTM trans, and hasn't had bottom surgery. So, I will be using male pronouns while referencing female anatomy. I won't be giving his, or my name. He'll just be T.

Before T, I had only been with male anatomy. And, sure, while I had gotten pleasure from it, things.. changed when I met T. Since him, I've yet to actually crave a penis. Truthfully, I feel like I could be perfectly fine going without it. And, while I would probably be quick to say I'm bi, there's one detail: Giving blow jobs would put me out of the mood. I really just.. did not care about penis other than when it was pleasuring me. But, my first experience pleasuring T, it didn't put me out of the mood.

I have no idea what to call myself and it bothers me more than it should 😂

Edit: In response to Ky. If he decides to complete his transition, I imagine I'll be alright with it. I've found pleasure from male anatomy before, certainly I could again, although, from what I understand, FTM Bottom surgery doesn't reap great sexual benefits.