am I over reacting?

So I feel like Mother's Day is the one day where it's all about mom! (Me) I have a little 5 month old and I made it very clear to my hubby before the holiday even came up I just want a full nights rest and to sleep in.. that's ALL. All night every time the baby woke up he would try and make me get up and cuss at me. And this mornin he called me fucking stupid because I left to go sleep on the couch because he kept letting the baby cry instead of putting him back to sleep like he was supposed to. Am I being selfish? Ok pretty upset now, and I don't even want to look at him because what he did was not right, and I don't want to just brush it off because my Mother's Day has started off so terrible (it's my first Mother's Day) am I being selfish ?