Did you do a gender reveal or plan to?

Holly • Engaged. Dog mom. FTM-to-be. due Dec 22.
This is going to sound so bad. But oh well. I wanna do a gender reveal. But I'm scared that we wont have those picture perfect reactions, but part of me thinks even if not it will be funny down the road. We both want a boy first. I would LOVE to have a baby girl, but i never had a big brother and envied those who did, so I've always wanted to have a boy first to be a leader and protector. Everyone in his family hss girls first... For a few generations back, So his family is hoping for a boy also. Im worried if it said boy there would be tons of shocked faces and crying and if it was a girl everyone would be like (Yeah.. Knew that) lol. As bad as that sounds. Not like we wouldnt be excited for our baby girl, we just want a healthy baby, but of course we just really want that big brother first. So idk if we should even do one, but I'm a photographer and work in the photography industry and I'm all about having pictures to document things. Such a dilemma.

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