Kind of annoyed

Kail • I`m 24 and a nursing student. I got married on October 8, 2015. I have PCOS.
I’ve been horny for the past few days. I thought my fiancé and I were going to have sex today, but it ended up being him getting a bj and I didn’t get anything in return. I brought it up to him a few minutes ago and it made him upset. (I know I could've made a move, but he was already getting dressed again so I decided not to push it.) 
I’m not saying I should “come” first all the time, but my gosh, I don’t think it should be one sided either.
I think my sex drive may be higher than his and that's fine. He's normally so attentive to my needs and it just bummed me out that he didn't this time. 
When I brought it up, he apologized, but it made me feel like he was "the victim" and that I shouldn't have even said anything.