stop asking this question!

Why do people feel the need to always ask if a pregnancy was planned? I get that you're cusious, but that's not a good enough reason. Does it matter? People are judging you no matter what the answer is. If it's not planned they think you're irresponsible and childish. If it is planned, they think you're selfish for bringing a child into this world or that you're not going to be prepared to take care at f it properly. So, just stop asking. I told my dad yesterday we were expecting, and his first question was "is it planned?"  I was so annoyed. Yes dad, it was planned. He's known for years that we want ed kids and for 8 years were perfectly capable of not having one on purpose. He said, "I thought you would wait until you had a house." Like seriously? That's why I normally don't share my life for choices with you. The worst thing is that I know he's just the first person who is going to ask me this question.