Husband made me feel awful..

Last night my husband and I had a spat because he would rather watch porn and jerk off than have sex with me. He doesn't have much if a sex drive and I have a really high one. I usually start up the sex. I've been busy and having a rough time lately so my sex drive has dropped. He has never once started the sex since. I told him if he wants it I'm more than happy to, I just don't want to start it every time. He got all pissy and said I'm not doing it for him anymore. That I'm boring and he wants new things. I said I'm happy to try anything he wants and he said that he would just rather do it himself. It made me feel so awful about myself. He literally told me I'm not good enough to get him off anymore. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid if I can't find a way to be able to get him off that maybe he will find someone that can... 💔😢

Advice or thoughts welcome/appreciated...