Help!?!

Okay so am I the only one that squirms and begs my man to stop when he stimulates my clit??? Okay my story is , Me and my guy were going at it hard when he decided to go down and play with my clit I instantly got a tingly feeling and it kinda tickled so I was squirming and begging him to stop I finally pulled away not knowing that without him doing that I would never get to orgasm without a lot of foreplay first ... Can someone give me some advice of how to push through that feeling??? Thanks