OK, so my husband and I have been married for 2 years and have an 8 month old son together. He works 2 jobs and I pretty much tell him everyday how thankful I am for all the hard work he does. I take very good care of our son, keep the house clean, and make sure he has dinner when he comes home...like a good house wife right...of course some days I just dont have it together and we may just order out but I think I do a good job for the most part. I'm a ftm so I think one thing that may be a part of why he has done this is cause I have given almost all of my attention to our son. Making my husband and I sex life not at all what it used to be. It is just we are both so exhausted by the time we lay down for bed. Idk so his part time is a barber at a shop and I dislike it in general. Very bad influences for him there. There is also a bar right next door....which is the first place I caught him in a lie. When I was pregnant he was out very late on a sat. And I was calling him but he wouldn't answer so I drove to the barber shop to see if he was there and nope it was closed ..so I called again and I see him run out of the bar so he could answer the phone. I was pissed. .we argued. he said he wouldn't so it again. Idk how lo g after that but pretty much the same thing. He wasnt answering me and it was late ...I was like 7 month Prego at this time..and I saw on google maps location he was at an area that I knew there was a strip club there. Sure enough I drive over and see his car parked putside. I go in and see the manager of the barber shop there with my husband sitting at a table near the front with ones all over it. I was livid. I couldn't believe it ...I left crying and told him I didnt want to be with him anymore. He was so sorry begged me to forgive him blah blah. Fast forward to now...I went to Houston last Friday...its about a 3 1/2 hr drive from Dallas but with an 8 month old like 5 lol. And came back Sunday...I was home waiting for him to come home and again ..he wasn't ansering me ..I had a bad feeling cause he told me he would be here at a certain time. So I drove (with my son, after just getting here from a 5 hr drive) to the barber shop...its closed. His car isn't there. I decide to go check the strip club (same one as previously) and what do ya know ...his car is there. I literally could not believe it. I was so mad I wrote on his window with lipstick I want a divorce ..and about an hour or so later he calls me ...saying why would I do that? That his friend was using his car and called him saying what the window said ...lmao. I was like bullshit. Eventually he told me the truth. But thats cause when he found where I was (went to Starbucks to tali to my sis in law ) he didnt have his WEDDING RING on. . . I was literally done ...I have never felt so betrayed. And all the lying he did to cover it up. I just can't get past it. I was really bitchy to him when he got home today ...cause I just dont trust him anymore ...I dont know what I should do... Thanks for whoever took the time to read all this lol
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