under appreciated

I worked an extra five hours to make up enough money to happily hand the money over to my boyfriend, who owes it to someone else. After which I asked him if he'd want to go out together on our free day and relax. After busting my ass, cleaning an entire house and crying my eyes out he tells me "nah." Once I get mad I'm called crazy and told to calm down. Not only that but not even a month ago he had left while I was at school to hang out with his "female friend" while supposedly being sick. I don't know what to do, I don't wanna say anything because then I get called crazy and I feel like I'm annoying him.