But I wish I could be you. I am on bedrest in the special care ob unit because my son (our firstborn) was just diagnosed with iugr at 24 weeks... he's just barely a pound (460 grams) and I am praying that He can last at least 4 weeks (preferably 6 weeks) longer in my womb. I'd love to be big right now, or really that he would be big. His vitals are fantastic and I am so grateful about that, but please, it is not a blessing that I'm small (he's small). It is terrifying. And we've had to make the worst decisions I wouldn't wish on anyone, having discussions about his chances of survival and having severe disability if he were born now. I'm monitored 2x a day for his heartbeat and for contractions because if these things fail then he would have to be born now and we are trying to hold on so hard right now. 

I love my son, he is a warrior, and I know if God led me to it, He will bring me through it. I know God has a plan for this little boy. But please, do not ever wish this. This is the most heart wrenching thing to have to go through. 

I want to scream at people who complain these things! No, you are blessed, be thankful you are having a full term pregnancy and that your baby is growing! That is so beautiful!