young and infertile

I know and have known that having kids is going to be a pain in the ass for me. 
Every woman in my family has had to have medical intervention to have children. So that means, there's like a 99% chance that I won't have kids unless I get medical intervention. 
When people say stuff like "why don't you have kids yet?" "Are you going to have kids?" It's painful. I know this is probably stupid as hell to you, because there is no malice in it. But it feels like a knife is cutting through me when I'm asked that and I just want to snap at them and be like "I can't have kids don't ask people that question" 😒 seriously I don't understand why people are SO concerned with other people having kids. When I want kids, I'm gonna have to have surgery, possibly do <a href="">IVF</a> and cross my fingers. Is it bad that I feel this way? Do I need to check myself? Am I being too much?