someone tell me if I'm wrong cause my SO still hasn't touched me :/

So my husband && I got married about 6 months ago. We were together for 9 months before getting married. In the beginning of our relationship we would have sex like bunnies 😂😂... then when we started to get serious our sex kinda died down... now since we've been married our sex life is pretty nonexistent which frustrates me a lot because I am a very sexual person. My husband isn't intimate with me as much as I would like. He shows me affection but it isn't the same as being intimate. Lately I've been a little depressed because we've only been married a short time but it feels like we've been married for 40 years. He doesn't touch me && most times I feel like he isn't sexually attracted me me which makes me feel either really ugly or just sad inside. I've tried everything to spice things up in the bedroom, everything from wearing sexy leingerie/ dressing up to introducing some toys && stuff for fun, but nothing has worked. Am I stupid for feeling like this?