Vaccines causing developmental delays...?

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So I've heard both sides of the argument. I know this topic comes up alot and I used to get really bored of these posts until I had my own kids and started researching and read scary things and didn't know what to believe. I still feel lost on this topic. My son is on the spectrum he's had all shots except mmr including flu shot. But he's regressed the past few months and is now diagnosed as on the spectrum of asd. I'm torn. My baby girl is totally vac free but it's hard to find drs and overall it's hard to know what's really going on. I have so many questions about vaccines first of all effectiveness my son got the flue this year albeit getting the vaccine and my Dr told me that her daughter had chicken pox after getting the cp vaccine I know polio and other illnesses have been eradicated but I feel like unless the whole world is vaccinating there's still chances of kids getting sick with vaccines and I can't control the whole world anyways. Then there's the question of why is their formeldahyde in vaccines all this info is available on package inserts on cdc.gov and then says this vaccine hasn't been tested against causing cancer? But formeldahyde is a carcinogen and even the cdc admits that in small amounts can cause cancer Google formeldahyde cdc. Some say there's tiny amounts but that's per vaccine and kids these days are set up to get a ton of those vaccines it adds up. Anyways wtvr I have so many more questions and drs hate answering this stuff they just shut you up and leave you avoiding them. What are everyone opinions on this I've heard people say well you better vaccinate cuz I can't my kid cant get vaccines but that doesn't help as I have to look out for my kids and I need to feel like what I'm giving my children is totally safe. Tia.

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