Being opinionated ?

I moved to a new city two months back. I am trying to make new Frds as its only me and my husband here. I am indian by race and all the people I have met who are Indian and some how I feel make me feel unwanted or treat me like an option in parties or common group chat. When I tell me husband he says u have an opinion on every one ! I do realise I am I am not having a issue I jus feel that they r being mean to me and not giving me the respect I deserve. I have met these groups twice only . But the way they chat with me on common chat makes me feel worthless and not wanted in their groups. What should I do ? Should I leave or stop communicating with them ? Or should I jus continue going on these meet ups and see if things improve? Need ur opinions thanks