Wait it out or Spice it up?

So my boyfriend and I used to have very spicy sex, lots of oral on both of our parts (literally and figuratively 😏😂), crazy very rough,sloppy,69,spanking,screaming,choking, creamy,messy,hot,wild and sexy. This was in the beginning of our relationship. And now we have died down a lot, I've brought up him not giving oral and he says it is because of the stress and things happening (we had a lot of significant life events happen.) And he knows how much I love when he gives me oral so he doesn't want to not be passionate about it when he does it for me. But I still do everything I can on this side, I give my normal amazing oral and throw that thing back for him when he wants it (which he loves and gets off with on a normal basis) but I am CRAVING him and the oral he gives.

So do I wait it out or is there a better way to seduce him and spice things up or like make it too convenient for him to not also give me head and be nasty sexy like we were?