Are you truly a virgin?

People love going on and on about being virgins when they;

1.Finger each other

2. Do oral sex

3. Anal

Just because that guy's penis didn't go into your vagina you are saint

Does this mean if you are lesbian you die a virgin because of the no dick involved business and what not? What if you are gay? Or trans?

I truly believe our definition of virginity is flawed.

If you don't want to engage in sexual intercourse that's ok, but don't hate and belittle those who choose otherwise.

It's your body and you are tree to do with it as you please, but do not act like a hypocrite. 😤😤😤😤