Looking for someone going thru the same thing, or has gone thru the same thing

After you stop b/c it takes your body time to regulate and produce hormones and get back to normal...did this happen to you? How long did it take you to regulate..? I ask because im waiting for my body to regulate and im on month 4 and still waiting...kinda getting depressing and anxious because me and my husband are ttc for our first and without me being regulated theres like no chance of getting pregnant.. :( someone help me feel better!