my weight is drawing a line between my relationship my bf says I need a lose weight am i big or curvy? bust34DD (37in) waist 30 in and hips 37in

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Lose 150lbs by leaving that's asshole and go get some cake he has no right to tell you to lose weight. I'm sure your beautiful the way you are and you deserve a real man that will appreciate what he has

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that's messed up for him to say that is shitty. I wouldn't stand for it but that's up to you

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I think you should think about this from a health perspective and how you feel and not consider only your boyfriends opinion. Having large boobs does not make you completely round. Your waist and your hips are the same measurement. You sound like my frame size... I'm a 34 DD with 37 inch hips, and a 26 inch waist, despite having 2 kids, one of which who is not even 9 months old. Having a waist size that matches your hip size is a health risk. You are at risk for heart disease and diabetes as well as other diseases like cancer. Realistically, maintaining this waist to hip ratio is very unhealthy for you, he may know that and is trying to tell you, or he might be focusing on what he finds personally attractive. You can easily make choices to change your lifestyle and improve your health and lose him if he is only caring about what he sees instead of caring about you as a whole person.

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your height? Height matters alot. If I look at your sizes and apply them on my height I would say I have a little belly I dont like. Hips doing great. Im 5'8" my waist is 27" and my hips 36" as well as my boobs. My belly is flat but not athletic kind of fat rather kind of a layer of fat holding tight -- yeah i worked out for that shit. I used to be chubby and that was 31" inch in waist and hips and boobs about 38. My thighs looked the biggest though.. dont know the size. Anyway my bf did joke in a kind of gentle way about me being all chubby and cute though it never stopped him from making out and having fun in bed heh.. I used to complain alot about my weight he would be like "come oon youre not THAT fat just do some idk cardio and youll be good although i like it rhis way too" ... Yeah... I started exercising and the weight was chaning up and down. Cardio made me look skinny like a goddamn stick and I still had that lower belly and couldnt eat much!!. Then i bought some dumbbells spend less time on cardio and exercise in general and thats what Im today. My bf really likes my lower belly gone so I have that waist while my booty thighs and boobs are holding great! I dont think im chubby or fat anymore although I would slim down just a bit more.

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You are not either of them options, where is the perfect button ??? Everyone was made the way the should be never let anyone doubt you! Set your own goals at your own pace!! X

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I'm 36, 40 😒, 49... I'm bigger than I ever have been after having a early miscarriage but I don't think I'm big, just a little "healthier" than I used to be. Inches doesn't matter as much as how you feel. Whether you are comfortable with it or not, fuuuuuuck his shallow, mean, unappreciative, simple minded ass!!! Jerk face 👊 tell him I said to kiss every inch of your curvy ass on the hottest day of summer with leather draws on before getting the hell out of your life!👌💆

my weight is drawing a line between my relationship my bf says I need a lose weight am i big or curvy? bust34DD (37in) waist 30 in and hips 37in

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