confused 0.o

is this group supposed to tear you down and make you feel bad about how much you weigh or bring you up and help you feel better about it cause i'm 268 and ik i'm over weight but i'm still gonna ttc there are a lot of skinnier women out there that have problems with pregnancies now they're trying to say just cause we have some meat on our bones we're gonna have problems with ttc also i think they should make up their minds instead of messing with ours and putting us down