Twin moms

I can really use someone to talk to. I'm home with my twin boys all day while my husband works. I get overwhelmed but I have way more patience then he does so I feel like I do it all I feel alone because I know how to calm the boys down and the crys and what they need but he doesn't. It drives me crazy here I am at 1:30am still trying to get them to sleep one stops crying the other starts. One goes to sleep the other wakes up. I'm losing my mind. Any advice or anything I can take to try.