Feel like I'm constantly putting him first.

Haley

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. And ever since I got pregnant, he doesnt ever seem to want to do anything I do. It's all about him, going fishing or hanging with his friends, buying stuff for himself when he has bought nothing for his daughter who will be here in a week or so. I'm just so frustrated because I want him to realize that all I do is put him first. When I go to the store, I think about him (what would he want?) or even getting him his favorite candy. But when I'm craving something, he doesn't even think to get me it when he's at the store. Or when I want a back rub because my job consists of me standing all day, but he tells me to suck it up but when he can't fall asleep I'm right there rubbing his face or back to help him fall asleep. And then going and buying a computer that wasn't necessary and of course I get mad because Im saving yet he wants to spend money and won't even take me on a date (can't remember the last time we went on a date or he called me pretty). All he says is I can't wait for you to be done being pregnant. And then right now he tells me he really wants a tattoo but our doctor is suppose to induce me on Saturday but he said " I don't have to be there the whole time" yet when he was in the hospital not to long ago, I stayed there the ENTIRE day and even slept on a recliner chair with a small blanket being nine months pregnant. I just want to feel loved. I even asked him a few minutes ago if I could cuddle him and fall asleep in his arms and all he says is I'm gonna get up to put the dryer back on, but here he is asleep. The only time he seems interested in me is when we have sex, but even after that he just gets in the shower and doesn't even stay to cuddle anymore. I'm just frustrated and tired of feeling like I get nothing in return. Sorry I needed to rant, but I can't keep this in any longer or I might explode.

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