how would you feel?

so my childs father complains at night about my 11 month old crying and whining.... and lately he just walks out and sleeps in the other room.... i totally understand that he wants to rest because he works monday-friday but shit i wish i could rest too!!! i have literally done everything alone since i gave birth.... i have to beg him to let me go shower or use the restroom or anything..... it just really pisses me off!!! i see other families where the father actually helps and have relationships with the baby. he barely has a relationship with my son and we live under the same roof..... he'll play with him every now and then but only if im in the room..... and hes off on weekends and he still dont help...... he says the reason is because i breastfeed. okay hes 11 months now which means he doesn't feed much anymore.... thats no excuse...... what would you do in this situation.... our relationship has gone down the drain after 5 long years and this makes it worse!!! hes a good man and a good father sometimes but alot of things i really hate.... especially this situation.....