Is it selfish to throw a baby shower for your 3rd pregnancy but it's a different gender gab what you have previously had?

My friend is having a boy after having 2 girls and she has nothing for a boy at all since this will be her first son I brought it u to her to have a small little shower nothing huge and she said she doesn't want people to be rude and call her selfish.. what's your thoughts?

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