What to do???
My boyfriend is staying with me for two weeks. We don't live together and I live with my parents who have gone away. We have a 6 month old son. During the weekend my boyfriend is great he will look after our son, give him bottles change him etc.... in the week I feel so stressed and tired. My partner works nights from Sunday- Friday morning. He normally goes work at 10-11pm and depending on the job can come back between 3-5am. I understand his job and I know he works hard and it's tiring so when he gets home he sleeps during the day and will wake up at 5-6pm. But that means I'm caring for our son all day, I don't wanna wake him up as I know he has work but sometimes I feel a little angry that when he wakes up everything is done and he only has to care for our boy for two hours until I put him to bed. I am up from about 7:30 am and my partner decides he is going bed. I make my boy breakfast, feed him, change him, get myself changed. I take him out and about as hate being stuck at home. When I get back I do washing up, put the wash on, hang clothes up, put them away, prepare dinner for all of us, tidy the house up, I do this while also entertaining a 6 month old. My partner eats in peace while I'm trying to eat mine and feed our son. I give him his bath and get him down to sleep as he use to me doing it. By that time I'm tired. My partner gets ready for work and he will do the washing up after dinner which is great but then he sits watching tv or plays his PlayStation. I might do last little bits round the house as I feel it's quite now and can do it in peace. Have my bath and once my bf has gone to work I feel that's my time to catch up on my programmes. Then bed and I have to get up sometimes if the dummy has fallen out. Then I do it all again. When he gets in he could go bed but decides to sit up watching the to or playing games and when I get up he decides that's his time to go bed. I feel like he gets loads of time to himself and also as we live apart he really only sees his son at the weekend and not in the week due to work so I feel like I do this everyday and he don't and he gets loads of time to himself and I don't get that. Sorry for the long post.
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