he pissed me off...

Katie

14days until our due date... i told my hubby tonight that i was going to be deep cleaning the house one more time before baby gets here and that we need to keep it clean... he then starts arguing in my point of view "im going to be sitting home for the next 6 weeks with the kids (we have a 4 yr old), doing nothing but taking care of them, so that house is gunna be clean and dinner made when you get home from work. im not gunna complain when its a mess when i am doing nothing all day for the 6 weeks that im off work".... i work 40hrs a week, am a full time college student and i take care of our son on my days off while he sits and plays his video games all weekend or hangs with his buddies all weekend...i simply want to have the house clean before the baby is here and not have to worry about having to clean the house 2 days before baby is here or have to worry about going into labor and bring the baby home to a messy house... what pisses me off the most is he was laid off for 5 months this winter, he took our son 1 day a week otherwise i took him to daycare... out of those 5 months he never cleaned the house, i did it every friday, never did the laundry, and never cooked... but he expects me to do everything on top of caring for our 2 kids and in school... which i planned on doing my best to do most of it while im home because thats just me... but the fact that he just expects it pisses me off because he didnt do it when he was off. he couldnt even handle our son one day a week without complaining... yet ill be doing all of it while caring for both kids and doing school work.... it may just be hormones but im pissed.