I feel bad :( Long Post.

So family has always been very important to me and I've always had such a great relationship with mine. Back in April, we found out we were expecting and I waited till after AF was due to test again (I had a chemical in feb that we never told anyone about) after I had confirmed my pregnancy at the Dr's with blood tests, we then started to tell parents and close friends only. My mum was so excited. My SO's mum didn't seem to be. She started telling me that "there's other options" ect ect (we planned this baby but no one knew we were TTC)

I lost that pregnancy in June.

It's now August, I'm 4.3 weeks pregnant.

We're currently staying with my SO's mum for 4weeks till we leave to go across country to my home town, where my family is)

We haven't told ANYONE about this pregnancy yet (I plan on telling my mum when we get home, but no one else till later). We've already been living at my MILs for 3 weeks and she keeps making these side comments "oh your not pregnant again are you" and "keep your legs closed for a while" she's a really sweet and nice lady and doesn't say these things in a snarky tone or anything. I just think she thinks that her son isn't ready for a child yet (he's her youngest) her 4 other kids all have kids.

It's it wrong for me to not want to tell her? Even though I'm living in her house for another 4 weeks. I feel so bad coz family is everything to me. But my SO has always kinda been the outlast of this family, and I feel like she won't love this child as much as her other grandkids.