Boyfriend don't want to spend birthday with me

My boyfriend doesn't want to spend my birthday with me, I said I wanted to go out to eat & go party with those that matter most to me. He says he'd go to eat but deff not to the club, he also said "who Tf goes to the club on their birthday?" Which I found to be rude as'f, all I wanted was him to come and support me but instead he wants to be selfish