Vent (Perhaps TMI)

Just needed a place to get my feelings out. My hubby has been so different lately. We've had a lot going on and have been really busy. We're in the process of trying to sell our house and fix up the house we are moving into. I stay home with our 2 year old and do most of the fixing myself. He works and I keep up the house. I don't complain about it I love being home with my little one and taking care of our home. I'm not sure if he's tired or just has a lot on his mind, but it's hard for me to get him to have sex with me. I try to play around like dance on him or flash him or even grab him. He's more concerned with everything else going on than taking a few minutes to kiss me or have a quickie. I just don't understand. I figure as a guy, if your wife grabs your dick you should take a minute to enjoy it and not act like our home to do list is more important. My love language has always been physical touch, but he's so distant. I hate putting myself out there and being rejected. My heart is heavy and I don't know what to do. Any advice you have is welcome.