Vulva Insecurities?

I've always been super body positive and I have so much appreciation for my body, I wouldn't change a thing about it. But recently I've come to the realization that I'm actually really insecure about my vagina/vulva. Recently I shaved everything and it still has not helped with my insecurity. I dislike the discoloration even though I understand that it's normal. As of recently I've been flirting a lot with this guy that I really would want to sleep with eventually but my insecurities are holding me back from going through with that. (I don't want to tell my age but I'm under the age of 20) I don't know what to do bc this guy and I have not been talking very long so I am concerned with the fact that bc he isn't in love with me, he may be more bothered by the way my vagina looks or even tastes for that matter. I'm incredibly insecure about it and that is stopping me from doing what I want to do with my own body. Does anyone have any confidence or beauty/self-care tips to make my vagina/vulva the best it can be?