I was raped and lost my virginity to my rapist, does that make me no longer a virgin?

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You're a virgin until YOU give yourself to someone. I'm sorry you had to go through this, but I wouldn't let him claim something you didn't give to him.

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Being raped doesn't count as a loss of your virginity. At least I don't think so. People form their own versions of what virginity means to them. I was raped at the age of 9. I'm not going to say I lost my virginity to that sick POS. I lost my virginity to my now fiance because that's when I first had consensual sex. To me, virginity is about making the choice. Some people are technical about it and say it's when you tear your hymen, but that's a very inaccurate way of determining the status of your virginity. I'm sorry that happened to you.

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your virginity is a gift you give to someone. that was taken. if you didn't give it then I wouldn't think you lost your virginity. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

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That's up to you, not anyone else.

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You decide that sweetie that doesn't count

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Virginity is a stupid idea created by men to make women "less than"

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Losing your virginity means different things to different people, some people believe it's the first time you are penetrated, others the first concensual time others the first time with "the one"

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same thing happened to me when I was 8. technically speaking, yes, you're not a virgin. you could go by the claim of "I didn't give myself to him". but any sexual partners should know if you plan to be serious with them. that's what I did.

I was raped and lost my virginity to my rapist, does that make me no longer a virgin?

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