Ladies, i need an advice

So i am in a long distance and relationship, he is in the military i am overseas and our timing is so different. We have been having fights over the fact he would rather spend more time with his friends and would rather not fit me into his busy schedule then he will say i talk to you everyday which he doesn't unless i talked first. I don't know what to work this out, I don't know how to make him happy throughout a phone and skype only. This LDR has been really hard on both of us and i am lost, please give me any advice that would help get us into the right track. I understand military is not an easy job but it's been different these passed couple days.. any advices?