I need boyfriend advice 😟

I just don't know what to do.

So my boyfriend hasn't had a job since the beginning of the year and I've been working and paying for everything for us. Like when he had a job I didn't mind paying for stuff for him, but now it's getting bothersome because we've gone on trips and it's so much money out of my pocket.

He's picky with jobs like I am, which is fine, but he doesn't sound like he wants to work like anywhere.

He told me he doesn't really want to work because he doesn't have any future goals or career plans.

He's also super negative about himself and his life. He keeps saying he can't forget his mistakes and he feels worthless and he feels he's holding me back and that he's bad for me. Then he says he doesn't have career goals and nothing sounds good in life so he "should just die."

I try so hard to get positive thoughts in his head or make him feel better and think the opposite of what he's thinking but apparently he doesn't want any of that 😟

And no he doesn't want a counsler, I've asked him about that :/