My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We were friends for about a year before that and we have been making so much forward progress with our relationship. I'm starting to move into his new house, we're going on an overseas trip soon, I hang out with his family, we love each other more than anything in the world. He's great with my parents and all my friends love him!

The last girl he dated before me he had dated for 7 years. He says they mutually broke up. This happened about 2 years before he met me. The kicker is that they are still best friends and she still wants to hang out all the time with him. They work together as well. And on top of all that she's friends with all of our friends. It drives me crazy. I trust him 100% and she's in another committed relationship too and she's super nice. I don't know why it drives me so crazy that she's constantly around. Even her name brought up in conversation bothers me. I know I have nothing to worry about but just having her still be that close to him makes me upset.

I don't want to tell him that he can't see her. That's just crazy and I'm not that type of person. I would also be causing a rift in my friend group if people found out about how I really felt when she's around. Does anybody have any tips or advice to share? I'm so lost in this and don't know how to handle my feelings.