My boyfriend and I live together and have been dating for over a year. He is always having friends over, or going out at night and I have to fall asleep without him. I have one friend , sounds sad ik , who goes to college and keeps inviting me to parties. I went to one this weekend and stayed over and my boyfriend was pretty sad I didn't come home. I asked to go out to a party and stay the night at my friends again and he got really sad and was like ummmm ya sure I guess....... he said he doesn't want to fall asleep without me, which he makes me do frequently. I never go out, and I'm asking for one night. It's not okay apparently. He also blatantly said he hates my friend. His friends poked fun at me and hurt my feelings one night and I told him it wasn't cool and he got so upset with me for saying ehh I don't really want to hang with them again, but you can! How is this fair? He can go out all week and weekend long, and can also say he hates my friend while I get none of the above.