Am I in the wrong

So my husband left me this last weekend because I ordered a few things off the wish app we both make income when my money comes it goes in his pocket I never get to buy for the house or myself he buys whatever he wants with both our money. When I asked for anything like a couple months ago or backing broke he let one of his friends move in with those and during that time the guy broke all of our dishes I asked we get the dishes a new vacuum it was always no we don't have money so I want to head and I bought them things online myself and when he found out he left me am I in the wrong