Grower or show'er?

would you rather your boyfriend be a grower or show'er? why?(not really necessary to answer just curious)

personally my boy is a grower and also personally i kinda love it. it's so cool to me how it can go from being small..... to a nice ass size. like i love being able to feel/watch it grow. and plus, with a show'er, what you see is kinda what you get... where's the fun in that