My husband is a natural submissive 🙄

I loved being a submissive. I love the roughness of sex. Being obedient during sex, doing things I thought I wouldn't do. I absolutely love the thrill but my husband got comfortable in our marriage and now has turned into this submissive. Which he is naturally outside the bedroom.

I already told him about my absolute need of being dominated but he said he can't fulfill my need because it will be too loud and he doesn't want to wake up our kid. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

I feel doomed. What should I do? Because its been messing with me.