Sex don't feel good...?

Question

Everyone said sex feels good but it's been painful for me! I just started being sexually active 3 months ago and my husband is big down there. We tried lube once and it was ok (still painful) but we are trying to conceive now and couldn't use it. Tried preseed but got a yeast infection.. help? Does this ever get better??

Answer

I don't know if this makes you feel any better or not but I've been sexually active for a few years now. Some woman are just 'tighter' than others. For me, not matter how ready I am, having him insert it for the first time is always slightly painful and it's never gone away. I'm pain free after it first goes in and he thrust a couple of times, but its never completely gone away.  After that, it feels good. 
And you are also still fairly 'new' to sex. It takes some women more time to just get use to the feeling than others. I remember my first time didn't even actually really hurt, it just felt 'funny' so we had to stop because I was laughing too much.

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3 months is not a lot imo... sex is different for every person too. Have you ever masturbated before? Do you have fantasies? Maybe you haven't discovered or explored your body well enough yet. Do not feel affraid to dig in the topic and try different things that could trigger that awesome feeling. Have you tried different ways of foreplay? This could even include objects/toys... have you tried unique positions? Outfits? Music? Watching porn..?

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sex was painful for me at first. o waited until I was engaged. I thought I had a cut or something that wasn't healing up but the doctor said everything was fine, and suggested always using lube and stretching myself out with my fingers before intercourse. that advice helped hugely. my husband is normal size, it still can hurt a bit for a few minutes when he first enters, and also if he is hitting my cervix it can be uncomfortable (it depends on our position). I hope you find something that helps!

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